I do love a gentle self-sower in the garden, one that establishes itself here and there without looking like it is intent on crowding out every other plant around it.

I love a flower that is content to remain in the background of the garden and doesn’t shout with color or scent as if to say “look at me”.

I love a native flower, too, one that might, if I was a lucky gardener, just one day show up in my garden.

Do you know what flower is all of these things I love about flowers?


The wild petunia is all of these things I love about flowers.


Ruellia humilis, self-sows, but not so much that you think it is going to choke out all the plants around it.

Its little bluish purple flowers don’t shout or have a heavy scent.

And it is native to the Eastern United States.

I got my wild petunia start from another gardener. It was a raggedy little snatch of root and shoot that I hurriedly planted one cold November day.  I wondered if it would make it. Later that next summer, after I had mostly forgotten about it, I stumbled upon its blue flower.

Since then, I never cut back the wild petunias, not even in late fall. I just let them be.

Sure, sometimes in a fit of weeding madness, I might pull one out.  But I just shove it back in the ground with a quick apology and a little pat as soon as I realize it.

Slowly, slowly, slowly, faster than a glacier, but not as quick as a dandelion, wild petunias are making a little stand in my garden.

It’s becoming a place where the wild petunia blooms.

And that makes me happy.

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