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When A Gardener Goes To A Wedding

July 14, 2009 By Carol Michel 24 Comments

When a gardener goes to a wedding and the groom asks her to take a few pictures to supplement those taken by the real professional photographers, she tries to remember that he and his new bride would probably like a few pictures of people to go with the pictures of gardens and flowers.

First, the gardener realizes that boutainaire boutonniere is not an easy word to spell.

Then at the church, she notices how the trees perfectly frame the entrance and that the name of the church includes “Rosa”, a favorite flower of many gardeners.And she notes what a nice day it would be for gardening.

She notices the elegance of the white flowers on black satin on the bridesmaids’ dresses.And is reminded that sometimes simple decorations are best, on a dress and in a garden.

She is excited that the reception is at the Allison Mansion at Marian University because the gardens there were originally designed by Jens Jensen in 1912. And she notes upon arrival that it is an elegant estate in a park like setting that any gardener would love to explore.

The first garden she encounters is a circular garden under renovation.
But she thinks it is still beautiful in midsummer with hydrangeas blooming.

Then she sneaks over to see this garden with it’s half circle of columns, which is typical of gardens designed by Jensen.
And she thinks about the lack of true architectural elements in her own garden.

Then she notices that there are lots of large planters around the entrance and on the balcony of the mansion.And she thinks about the planters in her garden and hopes she remembers to water them when she gets home, but then remembers that it rained the day before so they probably don’t need water right away.

Inside the mansion, she sees all kinds of interesting architectural elements carved into solid wood, limestone and marble and painted onto ceilings, including this odd little girl.And she looks more closely to see that it looks like the little girl is holding radishes in her right hand. What does that symbolize? Who is she? Should the gardener plant radishes for fall harvest?

The gardener likes that the dinner takes place in a room with windows looking out over a wooded area behind the house.Though she is reminded again what a beautiful evening it is for gardening.

Elsewhere in the mansion, she looks out other windows to see various parts of the garden.And she is reminded of the beauty of a garden, the perfect place to celebrate a wedding.

And she hopes the bride and groom don’t mind “a few” pictures of the gardens to go with the pictures of their family and guests…

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  1. Cindy, MCOK says

    July 14, 2009 at 1:19 am

    That balcony planter is just gorgeous! I wish I had the knack of creating such bountiful containers.

    I'm glad the gardener found some things to enjoy about the wedding even if she would rather have been home gardening!

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  2. Aunt Debbi/kurts mom says

    July 14, 2009 at 2:00 am

    and you didn't borrow any cuttings?

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  3. Lisa at Greenbow says

    July 14, 2009 at 2:02 am

    What a gorgeous setting for a wedding and reception.

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  4. Sweet Home and Garden Carolina says

    July 14, 2009 at 2:32 am

    Carol you're just as bad as I am. According to my offspring I can't go anywhere without commenting on the flowers or the landscape.

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  5. James David says

    July 14, 2009 at 2:46 am

    You are so right when you mentioned when a gardener goes for a wedding, these are the thoughts that often run in my mind.

    Flowers, decorations, garden and all the little small details of plants and flowers, everything is remembered even after many years.

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  6. Mr. McGregor's Daughter says

    July 14, 2009 at 3:14 am

    It's hard not to notice the beautiful setting and details of a wedding. There's nothing wrong with that, although there is something seriously wrong with the little girl in the picture. I can see her skeleton!

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  7. Les says

    July 14, 2009 at 11:19 am

    I think we all suffer from similar afflictions that distract us from event or people at hand, always looking out the window or sneaking out the back door. The lucky among us can manage their affliction and say something to the hosts every now and then or contribute to the conversation without talking about plants.

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  8. Chookie says

    July 14, 2009 at 12:42 pm

    I realised I was a bit 'unusual' when I was 23, organising my wedding, and the florist expressed surprise that I could not only name all the flowers I wanted in my bouquet, but that I knew they were all in season. And that was long before having my own garden.

    For the record, I wanted Freesia refracta albas, champagne roses and a few deep blue irises.

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  9. Jim/ArtofGardening says

    July 14, 2009 at 1:06 pm

    And no pictures of the bride?

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  10. Chloe m says

    July 14, 2009 at 1:59 pm

    Nice photos! You always look at things different when you are gardener. I get a lot of inspiration from events like this.
    Rosey

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  11. LINDA from Each Little World says

    July 14, 2009 at 2:02 pm

    The "rosa" church is great. And thanks for the introduction to a new Jensen garden! Even if you were distracted by the flowers, it looks like a lovely wedding.

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  12. Kathy says

    July 14, 2009 at 2:10 pm

    Glad you managed to enjoy the wedding, gardener-style, even though you'd rather be gardening.

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  13. Catherine@AGardenerinProgress says

    July 14, 2009 at 4:16 pm

    It's funny when I go to different events I'm usually drawn to the windows to look at the gardens or notice the flowers on the table, etc. Our wedding was in my parents garden, I couldn't think of a better place for it.
    The wedding you attended was at a beautiful place, and I think you took great pictures. I'm sure they'll be happy to see pictures of the setting they were married in because I bet no one else even thought about it.

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  14. Gail says

    July 14, 2009 at 9:20 pm

    You've probably caught photos of sights they would never notice! How many photos can a bride and groom have of themselves! If I know you…there are also a few photos of guests and the happy couple. gail

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  15. layanee says

    July 15, 2009 at 12:13 am

    Perfectly understandable pictures from a garden lover. Nicely done.

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  16. Marie says

    July 15, 2009 at 12:02 pm

    At least you didn't kneel down and start weeding and deadheading. I think you showed great restraint. But I need to know, what do the radishes symbolize?

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  17. Judy Lowe/Diggin' It says

    July 15, 2009 at 1:31 pm

    Wonderful sentiments, beautifully written.

    Reply
  18. Entangled says

    July 15, 2009 at 2:13 pm

    Hey, isn't that girl holding a stein of beer in her other hand? I got curious and looked it up:
    http://www.steincollectors.org/library/articles/MKindl/MKindl.htm

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  19. Carol Michel says

    July 15, 2009 at 2:17 pm

    Thanks all for understanding what it is like for a gardener to go to a wedding or any place with flowers!

    Entangled, that is very interesting, how did you find that tidbit? I think I will try some fall radishes.

    Carol, May Dreams Gardens

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  20. invisiblebees says

    July 15, 2009 at 4:52 pm

    Your perspective and authentic voice always make me smile, Carol. This is a great post!

    Reply
  21. Rose says

    July 15, 2009 at 8:03 pm

    Beautiful photos, Carol! Looks like you thoroughly enjoyed yourself at this wedding. Best wishes to the bride and groom, and I hope they enjoyed all their photos, too:)

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  22. Garden Lily says

    July 16, 2009 at 8:22 am

    Too funny, and too true… I sometimes I think I'll get in a car accident, since I'm often looking in yards and gardens as I'm driving. 🙂 As for wedding photos, I think that these photos of the beautiful setting and the floral details will be welcomed and possibly cherished, since there are always plenty of photos of groups of people.

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  23. Sherry at the Zoo says

    July 17, 2009 at 3:53 pm

    Interesting perspective – quite different from the official photographer's I'm sure. I think it's interesting how anywhere you go, you always find a gardening connection….that has to be a genetic mutation! LOL!

    Your little sister

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  24. Long Island Wedding says

    May 3, 2011 at 9:45 am

    I agree that the place is a perfect venue for wedding and reception.

    Reply

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